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JEALOUSY: How to free yourself from the green-eyed monster

Jealousy has a really bad wrap. It's perceived to be a highly negative emotion that can turn the best of friends into foes. Let's face it. All throughout history we are told stories of how jealousy has crumbled relationships. Even entire societies!Β But it doesn't have to be this way.

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by MellyS in blog
29 June 2021

Jealousy has a really bad wrap. It’s perceived to be a highly negative emotion that can turn the best of friends into foes. Let’s face it. All throughout history we are told stories of how jealousy has crumbled relationships. Even entire societies!

But here’s the thing. Our emotions are not inherently good or bad. They are simply a reflection of what we are feeling inside. Therefore jealousy only becomes bad when we choose certain behaviours to accompany it.

This means then, that if we choose good behaviours, that jealousy can be a positive emotion.Β It CAN be one of the most powerful motivating forces in your life.

The difference behind the mindset of positive and negative versions of jealousy is quite simple. Negative jealousy comes from a mindset of lack. A thought process of ‘There is not enough for both so I must take to get.’

So how do you unravel the negative mindset and behaviours behind jealousy? In this segment of #AskMelly, I share how to do just that and what positive jealousy truly looks like.

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Melly Stewart is the founder of MellyS The Story Collector, creator of #courage1000project and the mastermind behind the #1 Best-Selling women’s emotional intelligence methodology, #StagesofSelf. With her mentoring programs guiding women to take control of their lives the feminine way, she guides hundreds of women every week to focus on their feminine well-being through her free community, Darling You Are Magical. She is on a mission to normalise the emotional cycles women experience so they can develop Self-Awareness, embrace Radical Self-love & take Courageous Action in life and business. READ MORE>>

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